Saturday, September 1, 2012

Do not use Ketaki flower to worship Lord Shiva !

Ketaki flower once used to adorn Lord Shiva's head. It got cursed twice, once by Lord Shiva himself and once by Sita devi.

In Satyayuga Mahavisnu performed intense penance on the gveta island for the attainment of eternal happiness. Brahma also performed penance at a beautiful place for the annihilation of desires. During their tapas Visnu and Brahma, for a rest, left their seats and walked about in the forest when they met each other. There arose a controversy between them about their respective greatness when Siva, in the form of a Linga, appeared between the two contestants and told them that he, who first found out his (Siva's) head or feet was greater than the other. Accordingly Visnu went down and Brahma went up on a tour of enquiry.

Though Visnu went down deeper and deeper for a long time to find out Siva's feet he failed in the attempt and so returned and sat at the place whence he started for the search. Brahma went up a very long distance when he saw a Ketaki flower falling down from the sky. He took the flower in his hands and went to Visnu and told him that he had found out Siva's head and showed the Ketaki flower as proof of his discovery claiming that it was taken from Siva's head. But Visnu did not believe Brahma and asked the Ketaki flower to bear witness to Brahma's claim. The flower gave false evidence in favour of Brahma. Siva got angry at this false evidence of Ketaki and cursed it. The Ketaki lost its place among the best flowers from that day onwards.

In the second case,

Rama’s father Dasharatha asked Rama to spend fourteen years in the forest.  So Rama went to the forest with his brother Lakshmana and his wife Sita.  The three of them started to live on the banks of the river Falgu.  News reached the forest that Dasharatha had died in their absence and a shraddha ceremony had to performed for the dead king.
 Rama sent Lakshmana to a nearby village to get the necessary ingredients.  Time passed and Lakshmana did not return.  Rama then went to get the ingredients and look for Lakshmana.  But Rama too did not return.  It was almost noon and the ceremony had to be performed before noon.  In desperation, Sita decided to perform the ceremony herself.  She went and bathed in the Falgu river and lit an earthen lamp.  She then made the offerings (pinda) to the dead ancestors herself.
Immediately, a voice was heard.  Sita, you are blessed, it said.  We are satisfied.In utter amazement Sita watched some disembodied hands appear in the air to accept the offerings.

Who are you? Asked Sita.

I am your dead father-in-law, answered the voice. The shraadha ceremony has been successful.  I have accepted your offerings.

But Rama and Lakshmana are going to believe me, said Sita.  They will never believe that such disembodied hands appeared out of thin air to accept the offerings.They have to, answered the voice.  You have four witnesses.  The first is the Falgu river.  The second is the cow over there.  The third will be the fire.  And the last one will be the ketaki bush.

Rama and Lakshmana returned and said, Cook the food quickly.  There is very little time left.  We have to complete the  ceremony before noon. Sita told them what happened, and naturally, the two brothers did not believe her.  They made fun of her and suggested that she was lying.  Sita called upon her four witnesses, but each denied that it had seen anything.  Without arguing any further, Sita cooked the food and Rama made offerings to his ancestors.

A  voice was then heard from the sky.  Why are you calling us again? it said.  Sita has already satisfied us.    I refuse to believe that, said Rama.Indeed, it is true, retorted the voice.  Ask the sun god.  The sun god confirmed that everything had happened just as Sita had said it had.  Rama and Lakshmana were ashamed that they had doubted Sita and were also impressed with the power of her virtue.  But Sita cursed the four false witnesses.  She cursed the Falgu river that it would henceforth only flow underground.  She cursed the ketaki flower (pandanus odoratissimus) that it would never be accepted by Shiva as an offering.  She cursed the cow that its mouth would henceforth become impure.  It had, after all, lied with its mouth.   The hind sections of the cow would however continue to be pure.  And finally Sita cursed the fire that it would consume everything indiscriminately.

That is the reason why a ketaki flower must never be used to worship Shiva.